US nuclear negotiator unfazed that Iranian Islamist men wouldn't shake hands with women--says she's seen the same behavior back in the US in Baltimore's large Orthodox Jewish community-BBC

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Iranian men refusing to shake hands with women in observance of Islamic law was nothing new to an American nuclear negotiator who says the same practice is common in Baltimore's Orthodox Jewish community.
 
8/6/15, "Iran negotiations: The women who made the Iran nuclear deal happen," BBC, Suzanne Kianpour

Wendy Sherman, left

 

"President Barack Obama continues to push for Congress to sign off on a nuclear deal with Iran. But the historic negotiation was brokered with the help of an unprecedented number of female diplomats. 

When an agreement is struck among parties, it is standard practice to "shake on it" in order to seal the deal.

But when a historic nuclear accord was reached in Vienna, Austria, on 14 July between Iran and the P5+1, the Iranian negotiators could not shake the hands of their female interlocutors due to the country's strict religious customs. 

Three Western women - two European and one American - were central to a comprehensive deal reached to curb Iran's nuclear programme. Leading the political side of the negotiations was Federica Mogherini, the European Union's chief diplomat and former Italian foreign minister....

At the table for the Americans was Wendy Sherman, her country's first female undersecretary of political affairs and a veteran of nuclear negotiations.
She was one of the chief architects of the Clinton administration's North Korea nuclear policy and had taken the lead on the US team's nuclear talks with Iran since 2011. Having three women as senior negotiators in the Iran talks was unprecedented. "Even inside the European Union it's not that often it happens that there are more women sitting at the table than men," Ms Mogherini told the BBC.

"So it was somehow new, but it's my personal feeling that it was helpful." 

She says when the men veered off course and went on historical tangents or started to get tangled into debates about who gave more, the women walked them back to the present. "The fact of having many women at the table in key positions helped us be concrete and pragmatic the whole way."

But the Islamic Republic of Iran has strict rules about interactions between men and women - customs that diplomats follow regardless of whether or not they're in the country. 

"We couldn't shake hands, couldn't touch in any way at all," Sherman said.

But this practice was not uncommon to her.

"I grew up in Baltimore where there's a large Orthodox Jewish community where the same is true, but I think we all understood how to speak to each other without shaking hands and understanding each other to the extent that we got an agreement."

And she says being a woman was not a barrier in her progress in the negotiating room....Over the course of the years she got to know her Iranian counterparts rather well and they would often share videos and stories of their families..."Some of the teams were all men and I hope that will change," she said. Asked for more details she remained a diplomat. "They know who they are, they know that they've heard from me and that they need to change their act."...The women who brought the nuclear deal to fruition have their work cut out for them - can they put it into motion?" Image above from BBC

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Sherman is also among "most influential Jews in diplomacy and politics," per Jerusalem Post. US State Dept. bio of Wendy Sherman. (Deep Beltway insider).

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